Saturday, September 3, 2011

2 Million!

I thought we had a while still, but suddenly we have crossed 2,000,000 pageviews.  TWO MILLION.  Since December 19, 2010.

I am honored to be able to share Scarlett's stories, pictures, accomplishments and triumphs with all of you.  Thank you for reading.  Thank you for sharing our story with others.

Love,
Brandi, Chris and Miss Scarlett

Friday, September 2, 2011

Ch-Ch-Ch-Changes

I think my remodeling streak is over.  I am loving the bright, fresh colors and the header I painstakingly created in Picasa, then Photoshop (every new blog feature represents sometimes hours of tinkering with a program I have no idea how to use, so it is an accomplishment for me!)  A quick tour...

Title:  We are now www.starringscarlett.com.  Scarlett is most absolutely the star of this show, and we were ready for a new title.  If you are using a bookmark to reach us, you may want to change it to avoid the redirect.

Blood Drive:  There is a tab at the top for the blood drive.  More information is still coming (we have a meeting today) but the latest news will be there.

Buttons:  I made a new button for other blogs, as well as a place to collect buttons.  If you are using an old button, it will still work (through the redirect).  If you have a blog, add our button so your readers can check us out! 

Comments:  I changed over to a pop-up style comment box so we don't have to scroll and scroll.  You can also "reply" to a comment, which will post at the bottom of the comments (Blogger doesn't support threaded comments yet, and I couldn't find a hack for it.)  You still need to be logged in to an Open-ID account to comment.

Oldies but goodies:

We're on the Fence!:  Picket Fence Blogs is a blog ranking site.  You can vote for us once a day and we move up the ranks (we're #219 so far).

Subscribe:  If you subscribe to our blog, all new updates will be sent to you by e-mail.

I think that's it.  We'll see how long I last with this before I get the urge to remodel again!

Thursday, September 1, 2011

September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month




September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month.

Watch this video (tissues recommended.)

Help us fight.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Under Construction!

I got that late-night revamping bug and decided to remodel the blog.  Stand-by for changes over the next few days.  I'll try to make it painless for us all!  :-)

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Deadline

Tomorrow is August 31, 2011.  August 31 was our deadline for figuring out insurance, therapy, jobs and how we would pay our bills.  Scarlett's insurance through my job ends tomorrow.  My last paycheck comes tomorrow.  We're entering limbo, and only a few of the problems we are facing have found a solution.

Insurance:  done!  Scarlett will be added to Chris' Starbucks insurance as soon as we call September 1.  They won't do anything until she is uncovered, but then we have 45 days to get her on the plan, and it is retroactive to the day she was first uncovered.  The new plan is not as comprehensive as the old plan, but the maximum out-of-pocket is low, so we figure after her October MRI (which costs a whopping $16,000+) we'll be done for the rest of the year.

Therapy:  done!  Scarlett has finally been accepted to California Children's Services (CCS) for their therapy program.  It took months of paperwork, phone calls and additional evaluations, but they finally have the documentation needed to say she is a candidate.  This therapy is non-income dependent, which means she will qualify until she is 3 years old whether we have jobs or not.  CCS also provides medical payment assistance for low-income families, which we may qualify for now, too.

Chris' Work:  He didn't get the job from the big interview a few weeks ago.  It took a while for them to get back to him, so we just found out Friday.  However, there are a few opportunities sprouting up here and there, so we are still optimistic that something good will come along soon.  Until then, he stays put at Starbucks, where we have insurance (and free coffee, the loss of which would put a serious dent in our finances!)

Brandi's Work:  It was very sad to see all my friends start school over the last few weeks while I am home.  I know most people would love the opportunity to stay home, and I am grateful to be able to be with Scarlett every day, but no job for me means a huge financial problem for us. 

I have been looking into how I can work while also addressing Scarlett's needs.  There are a few options, but they are all complicated for various reasons.  I can't leave Scarlett in any kind of day care while she is still on chemo (or for a while after, really).  That means we need someone to be home with her every day, ready to take her to the clinic, ER or therapy as needed.  We're looking into respite care, which provides short-term care for medically fragile children, but when I discussed with our doctor, she felt we would not likely get much, as requests are high and Scarlett is relatively low-need compared to kids with breathing problems, mobility issues, etc.

I can substitute teach.  This requires having a few days set aside, since subbing is on-call (as in 5am phone call).  It pays okay, has no benefits, and is flexible, but in the same way unreliable.  Some weeks you work a lot, some not at all.

I can do private tutoring.  It is profitable per-hour and flexible, but really only available in the few hours after school.  It requires some planning and leg-work on my part to get started, but may work for an additional source of income.

My best opportunity is to teach part-time in a classroom shared with another teacher.  This is the highest paying option.  We can arrange Chris' schedule and my mom's one day-a-week off, plus all the appointments, to fit the needs of my job.  Yesterday, a 40% (2 days a week) job became available, and I made sure the district knew I was interested.  I am hoping this pans out, but I will make the other options work if I need to.

I'm trying to patient.  I still have one day before the deadline, and I won't allow things to fall apart after working so hard to keep it together for the last year.

Scarlett is still feeling good, but that good demeanor is masking a problem:  She is neutropenic again.  She has not been able to start her next chemo for the last two weeks because her counts are too low.  Now they have reached the point where she is immuno-compromised, and we may have to begin daily injections to stimulate her bone marrow to produce more white cells.  How I understand it:  her body is telling us it is tired and it needs more time before being hit again.  She has dealt with severely low counts over the last two months, and has needed so many transfusions I cannot keep track anymore.  Her bone marrow is not recovering as quickly as the protocol schedule requires, so we are on hold.  Her team is calling the St. Jude team (who developed and monitors the research protocol) to see how we proceed.  It doesn't mean much, other than her doses of oral chemo may be lowered.  We are expecting that she will have more trouble with low counts as we proceed with the next 6 months of chemo, even though it is not supposed to be so bad.  Scarlett likes to set her own schedule, and we have all learned to just go along for the ride.

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Something I Love: Thred-Up

Scarlett update:  She's feeling good!  Her counts are very sluggishly increasing, so we have still not begun the new chemo (it's still lurking in the refrigerator).  We go tomorrow for another lab draw to see if she's ready.  I am working on getting a picture of her newest trick - sitting up (propped with her arms)!  She can hold it for a few minutes most times.  She even sat in the grocery cart seat for the first time yesterday!  Big girl!

I wanted to share with everyone something I am loving right now.  I have been using the site Thred-Up to exchange Scarlett's outgrown clothes for new (well, new to us, used by others) pieces in larger sizes.  We had a TON of clothes in 0-3 and 3-6 months sizes that she has finally outgrown. We've gotten many hand-me-downs, but suddenly no one around me is having a girl (boys everywhere!) and you can see from pictures that Scarlett's wardrobe is very... pink. Normally, I would donate clothes to Goodwill, but we need to keep refilling the closet with the next size (since she has grown so much lately!) and can't afford a shopping spree.  I was looking for a way to clear out the closet when my friend suggested Thred-Up, a clothes-swapping site.

How it works:  Sign-up is free.  When you sign-up, you get USPS Medium Flat Rate boxes sent to you free.  Your job is to fill them with clothes, then post a detailed description (sizes, seasons, colors, brands, the more the better).  Once your box it filled, you post it for others to choose.  When your box is picked, you print the label they send and either leave it for pick-up by USPS or drop it off at the post office.

Meanwhile, you get to choose other boxes you need.  It costs $15.95 ($10.95 shipping + $5.00 fee) to get a box.  There are tons to choose from in most sizes, especially in smaller infant sizes.  You have to shop around a bit to find the nicest things, but I did well on my first try.  I got a full box of 15 items for less than a single new item would cost, and it was all in great shape.

It's designed to be a swap, so you get to pick as many boxes as you post (plus two bonus picks to start).  You can earn cash bonuses for highly-reviewed boxes; I got two $5 bonuses toward my next purchase.  You can also get bonuses for posting boxes with sizes that are less abundant (mostly 2T and up).

If you are drowning in baby clothes like we were, this might work for you, too!  If you are interested in trying it, I can send invites (which earn us points toward purchases if you purchase).  E-mail me at scarlettgrace2010@gmail.com and I'll send an invite to your e-mail.

(I'm not in any way affiliated with Thred-Up, nor am I getting anything for posting about this.  I have just been talking about it to everyone I know and thought I would share!)

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Photoshoot!

One day soon I'll learn how to add music to my Picasa movies.  Until then, enjoy the best (and best outtakes!) of Scarlett's latest photoshoot!